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Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our
path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not
completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and
women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with
themselves. There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault;
they seem to have been born that way. They are naturally incapable
of grasping and developing a manner of living which demands
rigorous honesty. Their chances are less than average. There are
those, too, who suffer from grave emotional and mental disorders,
but many of them do recover if they have the capacity to be
honest. |
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Our stories disclose in a general way what we used to be like,
what happened, and what we are like now. If you have decided you
want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it,
then you are ready to take certain steps. |
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At some of these we balked. We thought we could find an easier,
softer way. But we could not. With all the earnestness at our
command, we beg of you to be fearless and thorough from the very
start. Some of us have tried to hold on to our old ideas and the
result was nil until we let go absolutely. |
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Remember that we deal with alcohol--cunning, baffling, powerful!
Without help it is too much for us. But there is One who has
all power--that One is God. May you find Him now! |
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Half measures availed us nothing. We stood at the turning
point. we asked His protection and care with complete abandon.
Here are the steps we took, which are suggested as a program of
recovery: |
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We
admitted we were powerless over alcohol that our lives had become
unmanageable.
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Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. |
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Made a decision to
turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we
understood Him.
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Made a searching and
fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
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Admitted to God, to
ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our
wrongs.
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Were entirely ready
to have God remove all these defects of character.
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Humbly asked Him to
remove our shortcomings.
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Made a list of all
persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them
all.
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Made direct amends to
such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure
them or others.
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Continued to take
personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
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Sought through prayer
and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we
understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us the
power to carry that out.
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Having had a
spiritual awakening as the results of these steps, we tried to
carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles
in all our affairs. |
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Many of us exclaimed, "What an order! I can't go through with it."
Do not be discouraged. No one among us has been able to maintain
anything like perfect adherence to these principles. We are not
saints. The point is, that we are willing to grow along spiritual
lines. The principles we have set down are guides to progress. We
claim spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection. |
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Our description of the alcoholic, the chapter to the agnostic, and
our personal adventure before and after make clear three pertinent
ideas: |
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That we were alcoholic and could not manage our own lives. |
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That probably no human power could have relieved our alcoholism.
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That God could and would if He were sought. |
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Reprinted from 'Alcoholics
Anonymous', chapter 5 p. 58,
with permission from A.A. World
Services Inc.
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